Sex Addiction Therapy

Are you preoccupied with sexual thoughts? Have been engaging in sexual activities that feel out of control? Perhaps you spend considerable amounts of time in activities related to sex, such as spending hours viewing pornography? Perhaps you pursue these activities instead of work or spending time with your family. Do you wish you could control or limit your sexual urges but do not know how to stop?

Dealing with a sexual addiction can be a shameful, isolating, and worrisome experience. Preoccupation with sexual thoughts can feel overwhelming. The anticipation or thrill may be exhilarating, but once it is over, you may feel consumed with guilt, and fear that you will be found out. Or perhaps your secret has been discovered, and now you are terrified you will lose your partner, family, or job. You are not alone. Many adults, both men and women, experience difficulty with intimacy that can lead to developing a sex, love, or relationship addiction. Because these behaviors often produce feelings of isolation and shame, many addicts lead a double life. If you’re wondering if your sexual behavior is “normal,” consider how it affects your life. Are your sexual habits causing harm to your marriage or relationship, professional life and/or personal wellbeing? If so, it may be time to seek professional guidance.

Beginning sex addiction treatment can be challenging at first. I provide a safe and non-judgmental environment, promoting honesty and accountability as you begin to better understand, explore, and address your specific behaviors. I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT). During my career I have trained directly with Dr. Patrick Carnes, a leader in the field of sex addiction. In my practice, I utilize Dr. Patrick Carnes’ task-centered approach to interpersonal therapy and relapse prevention. During our initial sessions, we first will identify harmful behaviors and then formulate a treatment plan designed to promote recovery. For example, if you are addicted to pornography, we would discuss and implement methods to abstain from pornography use, such as placing the computer in a well-trafficked area, blocking computer and mobile devices from pornographic sites, and work towards building a life of recovery. We have to first identify the behavior, acknowledge how it is harmful, and then work toward healing. Additionally, I may recommend participation in a 12-step program.

With the support and guidance of an experienced and compassionate psychologist combined with your willingness to commit to and engage in the sex addiction treatment process, you are taking the first step towards your recovery. It is possible to better understand and address your compulsive behavior and make meaningful changes that can improve your relationships, including the relationship with yourself. It’s true that sex addiction treatment requires focus, diligence and hard work, and healing is possible. You can live an authentic and connected life. Together, we can address the pain sexual behavior has caused you, your spouse or your family and work toward creating meaningful, lasting change.

If you are seeking sex addiction treatment or if your spouse is seeking support, please feel free to call me at (520) 326-5761 or email me at ssticken@live.com. I’m happy to discuss your specific needs and answer any questions you may have about my practice